As an educator in the public sector, one of the frequent frustrations is the growing expectation that teachers serve not only as instructors but also as counselors, parents, and providers. These are roles we cannot—and should not—be expected to take on fully. Conversations often center around how we can encourage families to reclaim their primary role in their child’s education, taking responsibility much as they did in the past. Education has changed dramatically, but the need for strong family involvement remains the same. The need is so great that educators do not simply move forward hopelessly, but instead tirelessly fight for this balance as educators and help teach and support parents in their child’s education and throughout life.

Similarly, in Christian communities, there is a clear expectation that parents, not the church alone, are primarily responsible for leading their families spiritually. Scripture supports this deeply — passages like Deuteronomy 6:6–7 call parents to impress God’s commands on their children throughout daily life. Churches rightly encourage families to weave Bible reading, prayer, and spiritual conversations into their homes, recognizing that true spiritual growth begins within the family. But here’s the tension: while the expectation is loud and clear, the guidance on how to do this feels frustratingly silent. Similarly to educators making the adjustment to shift their understanding of how to reach families and seeing their role to play, ministries too have a role to play.

Many families want to lead spiritually at home. They know they should. They hear the call to be “spiritual leaders” and to disciple their kids. Yet when they look for practical tools, examples, or ongoing support, they often find very little. Families are told to build altars at home, but are rarely shown how to stack the stones. They may be new or even seasoned believers, and the solution is often passed off as encouraging others to attend more events at church. But this does not solve the learning that must and should primarily come from the home.

The reality is, most parents today were not discipled in their own homes growing up. Many feel unqualified, intimidated, or unsure where even to begin when it comes to teaching the Bible to their children. Without clear direction, family discipleship can quickly become another guilt-laden topic instead of a life-giving part of family life.

This gap between expectation and equipping isn’t because churches don’t care — far from it. Often, it’s simply because the systems and rhythms needed to empower families haven’t been fully built yet. Times have changed, and the needs for families have shifted. It’s easy to assume families will figure it out naturally, but spiritual leadership at home, like anything else important, usually needs intentional training and ongoing encouragement.

That’s exactly why I created Christian Curriculum at BiblicalCurriculum.com.

At BiblicalCurriculum.com, I offer families and churches real, sustainable, and usable tools to bridge the gap between intention and action:

• Simple, structured Bible reading plans for families of all ages
• Practical training on how to lead devotions and discussions at home
• Conversation guides that align with Biblical truths and make faith part of everyday life
• Mentorship and encouragement for families who are just getting started
• Resources for churches to equip parents as the primary faith leaders in the home

Leading spiritually at home doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. With the right support, it can become one of the most meaningful and life-giving parts of your family’s journey. When life seems uncertain, God’s word is everlasting.

If you’ve ever felt unsure about how to bring the Bible into daily life with your kids, you’re not alone — and you don’t have to figure it out on your own.

Visit BiblicalCurriculum.com and discover a clear, simple way to build your family’s faith — one step at a time.